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Managing type 2 diabetes will prevent the complications brought about by the disease allowing for a longer life of existence in the best conditions possible.
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6. The doctor may recommend a daily low-dose of aspirin (75 mg) or clopidogrel if there is aspirin intolerance as an anti-thrombotic therapy to reduce major coronary problems like angina (hardening of the heart arteries) as an example.
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3. A well-planned dietary meal should be based on a per patient basis as prepared by a professional dietitian with an extensive knowledge in diabetes.
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The analysis showed that women’s age at marriage, which affects the age of pregnancy, rose from 24.9 years in 1990 to 28.1 in 2007, and women gave birth to an average of 1.26 babies in 2007, down from two in 1980.
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When you are continually distracted with physical appearance, the
energy of your mind, body, and spirit is diverted from more salient
endeavors.
Psychological factors can add to the effect of media and culture. Girls
who experienced sexual abuse or an emotionally difficult puberty are
more prone to body dissatisfaction as adults. So are women who feel they
have little control over their lives.
"If I had love for myself or love from my family," Tracy says, "it
would not matter what a model looked like, and it would not affect
my personal self-esteem."
Instead, enforce changes on a smaller scale. Brewton suggests we
stop allowing those negative forces into our lives.
"Don’t buy Cosmo, buy Redbook," she says. "Look at really powerful,
intelligent successful women whom you admire as often as possible.
For example: Oprah, Rosie,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Hillary, Martha, your mom, your grandmother,
your daughter."
Tracy says repetition is key. "It begins with re-recording
the negative messages in your own mind, which are so painful,"
she says,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. "I have probably re-recorded that message
over 500,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],000 times, and I keep losing it. But it’s easier to find
for the next time."
Change your relationship with your body.
When food becomes a tool for active living, and exercise
becomes a tool for increased strength, your body becomes a
tool for your mind. Suddenly, your body has the endurance
and power to do what the mind wills.
There are tools to help you re-program the thoughts you
direct at yourself. One successful example is the
"Think Right Now" series of audiotapes and software
programs:
Specifically, TRN's Eating for Excellent Health program
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helps listeners regain a positive outlook on food and its power,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
Women who have felt the most brutal blows from poor body image say it is
not a single factor acting in isolation. Jennifer Tracy, who battled
bulimia for nine years,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], says a combination of factors, such as a
non-supportive family environment and a poor self-image, snowballed in
the presence of cultural influences.
Remember your spiritual connection.
"The first thing to remember is that the Universe does not make
mistakes," Strauss says. You are where you are for a reason.
Acknowledge this and then choose how to proceed with the next
minute, hour, day, of your life."
Focus on health.
Change your relationship with food. Food is fuel for active living.
Strive not for a number on the scale but for a weight at which you
feel strong and energetic. Ask yourself if your diet
contributes - or takes away from - your health and energy levels.
Once you navigate yourself out of the negativity rut, you’ll feel
better about yourself, and you’ll better understand your power to
create and maintain a healthier mind, body, and spirit.
A University of Toronto study, published in the International Journal
of Eating Disorders, found that women who were interviewed after seeing
magazine ads that featured female models showed a significant and immediate
decrease in self-esteem.
Carolyn Strauss is a top plus-size model, author of Specialty Modeling,
and a nationally recognized expert on body image issues, from
fashion to self-esteem. Her accomplishments now include her own
clothing collection featured on the Home Shopping Network. Through
it all, she helps other women move toward a more positive body image.
Strauss says the biggest danger of a negative body image lies in the
power it gives away.
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"When someone has a poor body image, she will try to find validation
from outside to make her feel better. The next diet, the next fashion
fad, the next boyfriend, anything but where she is now. Instead of
living in the moment, she may find herself living for ‘when I look better,’"
Strauss says. "Remember, the goal of most advertising it to make you
‘not OK’ so that, upon using that product, you will become OK. I say,
start OK and then you’ll only buy what you choose to have for yourself."
Find an exercise you enjoy. If you hate aerobic dance,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], don’t
join an aerobics class. If you hate the gym, don’t spend your
time there. Instead, experiment with exercises you’ve never
tried before. Is there an exercise that makes you feel physically
empowered? Do that one.
Motivate yourself to exercise by reminding yourself about the
burst of energy that inevitably follows a workout.
When we stop focusing on our bodies, and begin to focus on our
health, our bodies have an easier time finding our optimal weight.
Researchers at the Stanford University School of Medicine have
discovered that people who start a weight-loss program when they
feel happiest about their body are more than twice as likely to
lose weight as people who are less satisfied.
Find a group of supportive women, either in your neighborhood
or online. Then use this safe, non-critical environment to
empower one another.
Brewton also recommends surrounding yourself with friends
whose focus is not on exteriors. "Other women can make the
biggest difference in our lives by being mentors and leading
by example," Brewton says. She suggests we find a group of
women to meet with regularly to discuss issues important to
our lives, but, she says, don’t focus solely on body issues.
"Obsessing as a group is no better than obsessing as an
individual," she says.
Poor body image can lead to crash dieting and excessive exercise,
which can, in turn, lead to poor nutrition, injuries, and depression.
In it’s most dangerous form, a negative body image may fuel an eating
disorder or Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD).
Surround yourself with supportive friends.
"As I began to recover little by little from bulimia,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]," Tracy says.
"I did not surround myself with people who were as concerned
about body size. I put myself among beautiful, strong, and
intelligent women who really put little emphasis on looks."
Use positive affirmations.
When you catch yourself commiserating over tight blue jeans,
don’t let your mind get stuck in the negativity. When that
negative voice does emerge, follow it with 10 positive thoughts.
Most of us can think of a time when we thought a new haircut, diet,
or lipstick would turn everything around for us,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. But that mindset
can lead to a lot of wasted time and money. Constant self-monitoring
can also drain your energy, and it can even lead to depression and hostility.
Tracy proves that we can control how much power food has over us.
"One of the most important factors in my success has been to eat
everything and anything I want, whenever. I do not diet, restrict,
or make rules for myself in any way. This sets my life up so
that I don’t ever feel restricted and needy for food. It has
taken a lot of the importance out of food for me," Tracy says.
"Since I quit my bulimic behaviors, I have lost 15 pounds, my
face and cheeks are not swollen,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and I feel really good."
Twenty-four percent of women and 17 percent of men say they would
give up more than three years of life to be thinner. That’s according
to a poll conducted by Psychology Today magazine.
~Solutions
Seek help.
If you feel that your body image has become a pre-occupation, don’t
hesitate to talk to a counselor or therapist. Amoreena Brewton, a
mother with a background in sociology and counseling, has conducted
research on women and body image. She says, "Some people are too
deeply entrenched in their body issues to resolve them on their own.
Often, there are personal or familial issues at play when a person has
an eating disorder, so seeking professional help is highly recommended."
Tracy agrees. "In the end, my success came from the deep desire to
stop, which had been inside of me for years, and then getting into
serious therapy with an eating disorder specialist. Having someone
who focuses on just that area was a true lifesaver."
The advertising industry ties the already complex issue of body image with
materialism. A slender body is associated with wealth, health, and
attractiveness. A heavier body is associated with sloth, indulgence,
and a lack of self-control.
Change your relationship with exercise.
Regular exercise creates power and endurance, which can help
you enjoy more activities. Can you hike as far as you like?
Would you like to try kayaking,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]? Do you know the joys of a
"runner’s high"?
At the same time, studies show that half of American women overestimate
the size of their bodies.
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~The Dangers of Body Dissatisfaction
When we realize that it is a combination of influences that lead
to body dissatisfaction, we empower ourselves to solve the problem.
We can seize power by breaking the chain of these influences
wherever we can.
For the religious and spiritual among us, body image may
instantly improve with the simple reminder that God gave you
the body you have for a reason. He didn’t make you to look
like Cindy Crawford because you aren’t Cindy Crawford,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. He
wants you to be healthy enough to do your life’s work. To
live and work at an optimum level. So, accept His creation,
and nurture it.
Sociologists who study the western-world phenomenon of poor body image
attribute the problem to a variety of factors, including media and cultural
influences, as well as parental and peer messages.
Make small changes.
A global change in cultural and economic structures would, no doubt,
help us all achieve a more positive body image. But there will likely
always be supermodels, paid endorsements, and the unstoppable "quest
for the best" bandwagon.
"Our bodies are miracles, walking around in skin," Brewton
says. You will never come across a finer work of art or
machinery."
Befriend your body, and ask yourself how you want to spend
your life energy. "Imagine for a moment that you took all
that time you spend thinking about appearance and focused
on how much you love your ability to communicate well, or
what a great mom you are, or ways to solve the issue of
homelessness," Brewton says. "If you took that negative
energy and used it for good, not only would your life
improve, but the world would improve,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], as well."
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(“I’ve tried before and failed”) (defeated) (sabotage weight loss)
(“Everyone else is having it”) (deprived) (eat the cake)
Self-Efficacy and Cognitive Therapy for Weight Loss and Management
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An excellent way to gain self-efficacy for weight loss and management is through cognitive therapy. Cognitive therapy, which is most commonly used to treat depression,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], anxiety, low self-esteem, and stress, is a proven method for changing the way a person thinks. How a person thinks directly influences how a person feels, which in turn affects how a person behaves. For example, if you want to lose 30 pounds, what might you likely be telling yourself? I bet it goes something like this:
(“I have so much to lose”) (overwhelmed) (procrastinate)
So what is self-efficacy and how do we get it? According to Albert Bandura, self-efficacy is defined as “people’s beliefs about their capabilities to produce designated levels of performance that exercise influence over events that affect their lives…a strong sense of efficacy enhances human accomplishment and personal well-being in many ways.” In other words, a person must believe in his or her ability to succeed at a particular task in order to fully master that task. Sounds easy enough. But, like most things that sound easy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], there’s a catch. Self-efficacy is specific to the task – meaning just because you have great self-efficacy for some things does not mean you’ll have it for everything. In fact,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], because most of us wanting to lose or manage weight have previously experienced some form of disappointment in this area, deep down we are still expecting to fail. Basically,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], our self-defeating thoughts (whether we are aware of them or not) contribute to our lack of self-efficacy.
So what is cognitive therapy? Cognitive therapy is based on the notion that a person’s feelings and behaviors are influenced by their perceptions and thoughts. It’s time-limited (usually 6 to 20 sessions) and focuses on helping you go from a negative, self-defeating pattern of thought to one that is more positive and self-enhancing; and it equips you with the tools needed to maintain this change on your own. Homework is vital to the program and is always designed specifically for each individual’s needs. Once you begin to change your thinking and experience success, your self-efficacy will soar!
If you find yourself engaging in unhealthy self-talk,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], such as “all or nothing” thinking,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], “Awfulizing”, discounting the positives while maximizing the negatives, overestimating the likelihood of a negative outcome,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], using words like “should” and “must”,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or self-blaming – and you’re looking to improve your self-efficacy for weight loss and management, you may want to consider cognitive therapy to help put you in the right frame of mind. Good Luck!
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Some activities just have no real value, To be a published writer is one of the most rewarding occupations and pastimes - both financially and creatively. What would you like to achieve in the future?
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Take a second now and rate your desire for what it is that you want to manifest on a scale from 0-10,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], 10 being the strongest,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and 0 being the weakest. Connect not intellectually but by how you are feeling.
Suppose your desire is to find a better job. Your mind will come up with reasons why you can’t have that better job. Your desire is to move into a different direction, and your fear- your belief system- is telling you why you aren’t able to do this so this causes a conflict in you.
Notice that this is not happening just on an intellectual level. These thoughts and beliefs are creating a feeling. You are feeling fear on one hand and desire on the other hand. It’s like you are on a teeter totter – You want this but you believe you can’t have it.
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Even though you may now understand this concept of resonance, it hasn’t resolved the issue that you feel discouraged, stuck, frustrated,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], disappointed or angry. That energy that you are experiencing needs to be dissipated or that vibration will continue to be sent out into the field.
Let’s pretend that your desire is at 10, and your belief is at a 4.
Even if you suppress it, vent it (gives short term relief) or cope with it using different escape options,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], like watching TV, going to a movie, having a drink, smoking, it doesn’t go away....it’s still there. It just goes underground,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], taking its toll on you even though you are not aware of it.
When your desire is at a 10 and your belief is at a 10 you come into vibrational resonance and it will show up for you.
For manifestation to occur there has to be a match between what you want and the belief that you can have it or this will prevent you from attracting what you want. When there is a discrepancy between the energy of your desire and the energy of your belief (or conditioning) you cannot attract what it is that you want into your life,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
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In the past few months, I’ve researched, listened to, and observed the actions of people I see as very productive. Their perspectives and approaches are different but what they share is a discipline to adhere to the strategy that works for them.
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Do people equate not bingeing to a boring and very bland life? (You have to admit, there is something exciting about planning a binge…)
It's the same mentality that most of us follow while on vacation. You think to yourself,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], "I don't have to stick to my diet this week,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I'm going to live a little and indulge. After all, I'm on vacation and that's what it is all about". It is freeing to undo all the food restrictions you might have every other time of the year.
Think about how much better you will feel,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
With everything in life, there are obstacles and binge eating disorder is no different. The initial climb to stopping a binge is difficult,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but when you focus on the good that will come out of stopping binge eating disorder, it will get easier. It will remind you of why you need to go in that direction.
You will think twice of binge eating when you do not want to deal with a certain emotion or feeling in your life. You have to let yourself know that your life will be so much better when binge eating disorder is not a part of it! You cannot dwell on the negatives of binge eating; focus on the positives and how your life will change for the better. When you learn to stop binge eating, you will notice how your life improves in all areas. You will feel better about yourself and you will love yourself. It will be the best decision you could have ever made!
Think about all the extra money and time you will have.
Think about how much more energy you will have.
It’s true: To let go of binge eating is a very scary thought. It’s ...So many people have expressed to me that they are scared to stop binge eating disorder. It's not that they don't want to live a binge-free life; instead, they just aren't sure how their life will be without binge eating.
Think of all the newfound confidence you will have,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and think about how it will show to others.
But,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], let’s talk about really “living just a little” without binge eating.
Think about how much more you will enjoy your life!
It’s true: To let go of binge eating is a very scary thought. It’s been something that is comfortable for you for a long time. I remember feeling the same way. In fact, when I told my husband that I had an unhealthy relationship with food, I instantaneously wished I could take back the words that I just spoke to him. My "secret" was no longer a secret anymore and that didn't feel too good.
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In the past few months, I’ve researched, listened to, and observed the actions of people I see as very productive. Their perspectives and approaches are different but what they share is a discipline to adhere to the strategy that works for them.
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3. Understand the fact that both virus programs and viruses are evolving so choose a program that takes into consideration new technology that deals with new viruses and gets updated.
For all the convenience and ease that computers and the Internet afford, virus and spywares have become a disastrous part of the digital age. Since the threat of a virus attacks can easily go beyond being a simple nuisance, it’s rare for most users to go without the protection of reliable antivirus software.
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Although this approach to relationships is normal, it usually brings disappointment because happiness comes and goes. It has to, because happiness depends upon circumstances. When things go well, we are happy.
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does not pass, do not cross the bridge, after 4 years, driving across the Qian Tang River, from Xiaoshan to Shanghai at nearly 70 kilometers, saves 40 minutes. Yesterday,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Qianjiang tunnel shield machine launching and Qianjiang Road started ceremony held.
on the dig,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], engineering and technical personnel have been carried out for two years of technical. Yesterday morning,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], tunnel boring machine is 132 meters long, 15.43 meters in diameter has to be fully equipped for. It will perform the task through river tunnel.
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"in order to ensure the tide, and the traffic,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the final decision to build the tunnel." Qianjiang tunnel project manager Liang Guangyan said,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], "Qianjiang tunnel is completed, only need 3 minutes vehicle crossing the river." That is to say, from the South Xiaoshan to North Haining as long as 3 minutes. From the Jiangdong town to the centre of Jiaxing (until go to Shanghai), will be shortened about 40 minutes.
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, a human rights watch researchers to secret files, in resisting the Jihad in the war, Al-qaddafi often claimed to be committed to the establishment and as Washington and Paris or London link between. If possible, the CIA counterparts -- Section Six, is take refuge in the Al-qaddafi family. According to the Guardian reported,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], as early as in September, the British spy agency section six of the anti-terrorism department minister Mark? Alan is in secret negotiations prompted Al-qaddafi to give up the key figures act as weapons of mass destruction. As of six military in 2004 failed to post, Alan into a monitoring group to become the senior adviser,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], is actually by Al-qaddafi invested heavily in building their own global image of the consulting company. In addition, Alan also help the research of Seif at the London School of economics, doctoral dissertation. At the same time,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], as the British oil company adviser, Alan helped the oil giant from the Al-qaddafi regime had acquired the bulk of the project contract.
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It enhances the parent's self-confidence, self esteem and buttresses his self image. It fast becomes indispensable, especially in the emotionally vulnerable position in which the parent finds himself. This vulnerability is a result of the reawakening and reconstruction of all the conflicts and unsolved complexes that the parent had with his own parents.
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Is there a "typical" relationship between the Narcissist and his family?
There are some grounds to assume that a cognitive dissonance is involved in feeling that children are more a satisfaction than a nuisance. Why do people bother with parenting? It is time consuming, exhausting, strains otherwise pleasurable and tranquil relationships to their limits. Still, humanity keeps at it: breeding.
Hypothesis number three: children are mostly born unwanted. They are the results of accidents and mishaps, wrong fertility planning, wrong decisions and misguided turns of events. The more sex people engage in and the less preventive measures they adopt – the greater the likelihood of having a child. While this might be factually true (family planning is all but defunct in most parts of the world), it neglects the simple fact that people want children and love them. Children are still economic assets in many parts of the world. They plough fields and do menial jobs very effectively. This still does not begin to explain the attachment between parents and their offspring and the grief experienced by parents when children die or are sick. It seems that people derive enormous emotional fulfilment from being parents. This is true even when the children were unwanted in the first place or are the results of lacking planning and sexual accidents. That children ARE the results of sexual ignorance, bad timing, the vigorousness of the sexual drive (higher frequency of sexual encounters) – can be proven using birth statistics among teenagers, the less educated and the young (ages 20 to 30).
Doomed to build and ruin, attach and detach, appreciate and depreciate, the narcissist is predictable in his Death Wish. What sets him apart from other suicidal types is that his wish is granted to him in small, tormenting doses throughout his anguished life.
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This brings the narcissist a full cycle back to the first phase. Again, he perceives his Siblings or sons/daughters as threats. He quickly becomes disillusioned, in one of the spastic devaluation reactions typical of his appraisal of humans around him. He loses all interest, becomes emotionally remote, absent and cold, rejects any effort to communicate with him, citing life pressures and the preciousness and scarceness of his time. He feels burdened, cornered, besieged, suffocated, and claustrophobic. He wants to get away, to abandon his commitments to people who have become totally useless (or even damaging) to him. He does not understand why he has to support them, to suffer their company and he believes himself to have been trapped. He rebels either passively-aggressively (by refusing to act or intentionally sabotaging the relationships) or actively (by being overly critical, aggressive, unpleasant, verbally and psychologically abusive and so on). Slowly – to justify his acts to himself – he gets immersed in conspiracy theories with clear paranoid hues. To his mind, the members of the family conspire against him, seek to belittle or humiliate or subordinate him, do not understand him, stymie his growth. The narcissist usually finally gets what he wants and the family that he has created disintegrates to his great sorrow (due to the loss of the Narcissistic Space) – but also to his great relief and surprise (how could they have let go someone as unique as he?).
It is possible to think of children as habit forming (see: "The Habit of Identity"). In this hypothesis, parents – especially mothers – form a habit. Nine months of pregnancy and a host of social reactions condition the parents. They get used to the presence of an "abstract" baby. It is a case of a getting used to a concept. This is not very convincing. Entertaining a notion, a concept, a thought,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], an idea, a mental image, or a symbol very rarely leads to the formation of a habit. Moreover, the living baby is very different to its pre-natal image. It cries, it soils, it smells, it severely disrupts the lives of its parents. It is much easier to reject it then to transform it to a habit. Moreover,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a child is a bad emotional investment. So many things can and do go wrong with it as it grows. So many expectations and dreams are frustrated. The child leaves home and rarely reciprocates. The emotional "returns" on an investment in a child are rarely commensurate with the magnitude of the investment.
In the better-educated, higher income, low infant mortality part of the world – the number of children has decreased dramatically – but those who still bring them to the world do so partly because they believe in these factually erroneous assumptions.
It is the easiest to resort to Nature. After all, all living species breed and most of them parent. We are, all taken into consideration, animals and, therefore, subject to the same instinctive behaviour patterns. There is no point in looking for a reason: survival itself (whether of the gene pool or, on a higher level, of the species) is at stake. Breeding is a transport mechanism: handing the precious cargo of genetics down generations of "organic containers".
Second hypothesis: we bring children to the world in order to preserve the cohesiveness of the family nucleus. This claim can more plausibly be reversed: the cohesiveness of the social cell of the family encourages bringing children to the world. In both cases, if true, we would have expected more children to be born into stable families (ante or post facto) than into abnormal or dysfunctional ones. The facts absolutely contradict this expectation: more children are born to single parent families (between one third and one half of them) and to other "abnormal" (non-traditional) families than to the mother-father classic configuration. Dysfunctional families have more children than any other type of family arrangement. Children are an abject failure at preserving family cohesiveness. It would seem that the number of children, or even their very existence, is not correlated to the stability of the family. Under special circumstances, (Narcissistic parents, working mothers) they may even be a destabilizing factor.
This is the cycle: the narcissist feels threatened by arrival of new family members – assimilation of siblings or offspring – obtaining Narcissistic Supply from them – overvaluation of these new sources by the narcissist – as sources grow older and independent, they adopt anti narcissistic behaviours – the narcissist devalues them – the narcissist feels stifled and trapped – the narcissist becomes paranoid – the narcissist rebels and the family disintegrates. This cycle characterises not only the family life of the narcissist. It is to be found in other realms of his life (his career, for instance). At work, the narcissist, initially,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], feels threatened (no one knows him, he is a nobody). Then, he develops a circle of admirers, cronies and friends which he "nurtures and cultivates" in order to obtain Narcissistic Supply from them. He overvalues them (they are the brightest, the most loyal, with the biggest chances to climb the corporate ladder and other superlatives).
We are all members of a few families in our lifetime: the one that we are born to and the one(s) that we create. We all transfer hurts, attitudes, fears, hopes and desires – a whole emotional baggage – from the former to the latter. The narcissist is no exception.
And the more Narcissistic supply can be derived from other sources – the less do people resort to making children and to other procreative activities (such as sex). Freud described the mechanism of sublimation: the sex drive,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the Eros (libido), can be "converted", "sublimated" into other activities. All the sublimatory channels and activities are Narcissistic in character: politics, art. They all provide what children do: narcissistic supply. They make children redundant. It is not by coincidence that people famous for their creativity tend to have less children than the average (most of them, none at all). They are Narcissistically self sufficient, they do not need children.
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At first, he perceives his offspring as a threat to his Narcissistic Supply Sources (his turf, the Pathological Narcissistic Space). He does his best to belittle them,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], hurt (also physically) and humiliate them and then, when these reactions prove ineffective or counter productive, he retreats into an imaginary world of omnipotence. A period of emotional absence and detachment ensues. The narcissist indulges himself in daydreaming, delusions of grandeur, planning of future coups, nostalgia and hurt (the Lost Paradise Syndrome). The narcissist reacts this way to the birth of his children or to the introduction of new centres of attention to the family cell (even a new pet!).
But this is a reductionist view, which both ignores epistemological and emotional realities – and is tautological, thereby explaining something in terms of itself. Calling something by a different name or describing the mechanisms involved in minute detail does not an explanation make.
Whatever the narcissist perceives to be his competition for scarce Narcissistic Supply is relegated to the role of the enemy. Where no legitimacy exists for the uninhibited expression of the aggression and hostility aroused by this predicament – the narcissist prefers to stay away. He disconnects, detaches himself emotionally, becomes cold and disinterested, directs transformed anger at his mate or at his parents (the more legitimate targets).
But following some anti-narcissistic behaviours on their part (a critical remark, a disagreement, a refusal, however polite,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], all constitute such behaviours) – the narcissist devalues all these previously over-valued individuals. Now they are stupid, lack ambition, skills and talents, common (the worst expletive in the narcissist's vocabulary), with an unspectacular career ahead of them. The narcissist feels that he is misallocating his resources (for instance, his time). He feels besieged and suffocated. He rebels and erupts in a serious of self-defeating and self-destructive behaviours, which lead to the disintegration of his life.
We are all Narcissists, to a greater or lesser degree. A Narcissist is a person who projects a (false) image to the people around him. He then proceeds to define himself by this very image reflected back at him. Thus, he regards people as mere instruments, helpful in his Sisyphean attempt at self-definition. Their attention is crucial because it augments his weak ego and defines its boundaries. The Narcissist feeds off their admiration, adoration and approval and these help him to maintain a grandiose (fantastic and delusional) sense of self. As the personality matures, Narcissism is replaced with the ability to empathize and to love. The energy (libido) initially directed at loving one's (false) self is redirected at more multidimensional, less idealized "targets": others. This edifice of maturity seems to crumble at the sight of one's offspring. The baby evokes in the parent the most primordial drives, a regression to infancy, protective, animalistic instincts, the desire to merge with the newborn and a sense of terror generated by such a desire (a fear of vanishing and of being assimilated). The parent relives his infancy and childhood through the agency of the baby. The newborn provides the parent with endless, unconditional and unbounded Narcissistic supply. This is euphemistically known as love – but it is really a form of symbiotic dependence, at least in the beginning of the relationship. Such narcissistic supply is addictive even to the more balanced, more mature, more psychodynamically stable of parents.
Having children is not a survival or genetically oriented imperative. Had this been the case, the number of children would have risen together with free income. Yet, exactly the reverse is happening: the more children people can economically afford – the fewer they have. The more educated they are (=the more they know about the world and about themselves), the less they seek to procreate. The more advanced the civilization, the more efforts it invests into preventing the birth of children: contraceptives, family planning, abortions. These all are typical of affluent, well educated societies.
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First hypothesis: we bring children to the world in order to "circumvent" death. We attain immortality (genetically and psychologically – though in both cases it is imaginary) by propagating our genetic material through the medium of our offspring.
This seems to be the key to our determination to have children:
If explanation is true, the following should also hold true:
This is a highly dubious claim. Any analysis, however shallow, will reveal its weaknesses. Our genetic material gets diluted beyond reconstruction with time. It constitutes 50% of the first generation, 25% of the second and so on. If this were the paramount concern – incest should have been the norm,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], being a behaviour better able to preserve a specific set of genes (especially today, when genetic screening can effectively guard against the birth of defective babies). Moreover, progeny is a dubious way of perpetuating one's self. No one remembers one's great great grandfathers. One's memory is better preserved by intellectual feats or architectural monuments. The latter are much better conduits than children and grandchildren.
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This is not to say that people do NOT derive pleasure and fulfilment from their offspring. This is undeniable. Yet, it is neither in the economic nor in the mature emotional arenas. To have children seems to be a purely Narcissistic drive, a part of the pursuit of Narcissistic supply.
As the baby/sibling grows older, the narcissist begins to see their potential to be edifying, reliable and satisfactory Sources of Narcissistic Supply. His attitude, then, is completely transformed. The former threats have now become promising potentials. He cultivates those whom he trusts to be the most rewarding. He encourages them to idolise him, to adore him, to be awed by him,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], to admire his deeds and capabilities, to learn to blindly trust and obey him, in short to surrender to his charisma and to become submerged in his folies-de-grandeur. These roles – allocated to them explicitly and demandingly or implicitly and perniciously by the narcissist – are best fulfilled by ones whose mind is not fully formed and independent. The older the siblings or offspring,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the more they become critical, even judgmental, of the narcissist. They are better able to put into context and perspective his actions, to question his motives, to anticipate his moves. They refuse to continue to play the mindless pawns in his chess game. They hold grudges against him for what he has done to them in the past, when they were less capable of resistance. They can gauge his true stature, talents and achievements – which, usually, lag far behind the claims that he makes.
Still, this indoctrinated misconception is so strong that a baby boom characterizes post war periods. Having been existentially threatened, people multiply in the vain belief that they thus best protect their genetic heritage and fixate their memory.
The narcissist has a dichotomous view of humanity: humans are either Sources of Narcissistic Supply (and, then, idealised and over-valued) or do not fulfil this function (and, therefore, are valueless, devalued). The narcissist gets all the love that he needs from himself. From the outside he needs approval, affirmation, admiration, adoration, attention – in other words, externalised Ego boundary functions. He does not require – nor does he seek – his parents' or his siblings' love, or to be loved by his children. He casts them as the audience in the theatre of his inflated grandiosity. He wishes to impress them,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], shock them, threaten them,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], infuse them with awe, inspire them, attract their attention, subjugate them, or manipulate them. He emulates and simulates an entire range of emotions and employs every means to achieve these effects. He lies (narcissists are pathological liars – their very self is a false one). He plays the pitiful, or, its opposite, the resilient and reliable. He stuns and shines with outstanding intellectual, or physical (or anything else appreciated by the members of the family) capacities and achievements. When confronted with (young) siblings or with his own children, the narcissist is likely to undergo three reactive phases:
To experience the unconditional love that we received from our mothers, this intoxicating feeling of being loved without caveats, for what we are, with no limits, reservations, or calculations. This is the most powerful, crystallized source of Narcissistic supply. It nourishes our self-love, self worth and self-confidence. It infuses us with feelings of omnipotence and omniscience. In these, and other respects, it is a return to infancy.
The higher the self confidence, the self esteem, the self worth, the clearer and more realistic the self image of the potential parent – the less children he will have (the Principle of the Conservation of the Ego boundaries) The more sources of readily available Narcissistic supply – the less children are needed (the substitutability of Narcissistic sources of supply) Sure enough, both predictions are validated by reality. The higher the education and the income of adults – the fewer children they tend to have. People with a higher education and with a greater income are more likely to have a more established sense of self worth. Children become counter-productive: not only is their Narcissistic input (supply) unnecessary, they can also hinder further progress.
Other narcissists see the opportunity in the “mishap”. They seek to manipulate their parents (or their mate) by "taking over" the newcomer. Such narcissists monopolise their siblings or their new-born children. This way, indirectly,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the narcissist basks in the attention directed at the infant. An example: by being closely identified with his offspring, a narcissistic father secures the grateful admiration of the mother ("What an outstanding father he is"). He also assumes part of or all the credit for baby’s/sibling’s achievements. This is a process of annexation and assimilation of the other, a strategy that the narcissist makes use of in most of his relationships.
People derive great happiness, fulfilment and satisfaction from their children. Is not this, in itself, a sufficient explanation? The pleasure principle seems to be at work: people have children because it gives them great pleasure. Children are sources of emotional sustenance. As parents grow old, they become sources of economic support, as well. Unfortunately, these assertions are not sustained by the facts. Increasing mobility breaks families apart at an early stage. Children become ever more dependent on the economic reserves of their parents (during their studies and the formation of a new family). It is not uncommon today for a child to live with and off his parents until the age of 30. Increasing individualism leaves parents to cope with the empty nest syndrome. Communication between parents and children has rarefied in the 20th century.
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Xie Changting responded to media inquiries emphasize, want to see Chen Shuibian speech context, Chen Shuibian is about "legislators" election, as a coach to do, deliberately to "how to be president" election, omitted.
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In the north of the capital
has a 8765 square kilometers of land
north of Inner Mongolia grassland
South Mountains of northern Hebei Province
tidal river Luan River was conceived in her arms,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
Yunwu Mountain in Pingdingshan lying on her shoulder warm dream
this is my lovely hometown -- Fengning
emperor Kangxi called ",[link widoczny dla zalogowanych];a good place Wukang Feng Ning",[link widoczny dla zalogowanych];
Home picturesque beauty
Bashang grassland day heights width, flowers blooming like a piece of brocade
Jieba Mountain Linhai vast,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], an idyllic scene
dam high mountains and lofty hills, valleys and long......
Baiyun Kwu Tung is as beautiful as the fairyland
Tidal River rice fragrance
horn Yamaguchi grotesque caves
Fengshan town Shuxiang fragrance
this is my beloved hometown
a beautiful place
Development of
hometown change rapidly
a department store,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], two hotels have already become the pastA wagon road was
muddy is wide asphalt road instead of
a central street,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the county will be extended to the north and south 10
shops, pavilion towering, flashing neon lights......
swim Binhe Park are fresh
Deng Kowloon peak of passion
Hong Tang Temple, Beijing North grassland Resort Spa
there are everywhere in the farm house......
even big city people also admire here
sky blue,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], water and sweet, beautiful, beautiful and spacious residential building
this is my beautiful hometown
a lovely place
hometown rapid economic development
tourism, mining,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], green energy
cows, manufacturing, time difference vegetable......
"One City District eight base" planning
portrays Fengning a bright tomorrow.
home culture accumulate steadily
paper-cut, cloth paste painting, straw painting
poetry,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], prose,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Ogawa culture
"tide", "azalea", man Xiang museum......
this is my lovely hometown
a lively,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], vibrant good place
magical, beautiful, lovely hometown
you are the cradle of my
to your rich, strong and prosperous
I am willing to forge ahead,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], diligence and self-improvement
the lovely Fengning
you are my ancestors lived.
to your beautiful
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Be predictable. When do seeds of suspicion emerge? When one begins to think, What's up? Why is he doing that? He's never done that before. That is so unlike him. He loses 30 pounds, buys a new wardrobe and comes home late from work.
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I envy you your youthful look
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envy your smiling face
envy your body every kind of scent,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]......
because,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], because they
can always accompany you around,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
can every day around
beside you
and I,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]? And I
and I could be
A: what do you,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]......
I wish one heart to your
always accompany your life
until the end of life
in the heart in
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Ma Zhaoxu stressed that, although the parties out of their proposals and suggestions, also on these solutions and suggestions are discussed, some progress has been made, but the parties have common interests, there are big differences.
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The Qingming Festival, and his wife took his son to the home country of ancestor worship, see home in front of an old willow tree is with luxuriant foliage, a wild profusion of vegetation cover, such as Maxine Hong kingston. The long twig it in the spring breeze gently dancing,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], as if to welcome our arrival, a long, warm feeling well up in my mind, I be filled with a thousand regrets, thoughts thronged one's mind.
when I was small, willow is our country very common tree species, Zhuang station which is widely distributed in our country, the side of the road,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and in the wilderness, our Hongze Lake Guyan, grow a piece of the willow grove.
my old hometown next earth around the growth of many old trees,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], in different poses and with different expressions, which of course with willow. The first feeling when spring comes,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], people have not, willow began to bud tucui, then is the peach pear white, Qunfang Zhenghui, mulberry, ash and so on some unknown other tree does not show weakness, have followed the leaves, but they seemed slightly slow,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], then the willows have a green.
I can't help but recited the Tang Dynasty poet Aichi Aki's "the willow" poem, poem reads: "Jasper makeup into a tree, 10000 dropped the green silk sash. I do not know who is cut out of Verbena, February spring like scissors." The village has been willow dressed in a green, plum beautiful just green embellishment, willow is the messenger of spring, spring is the darling.
willow is very strong vitality, as long as you hit the stump of a tree, or cutting a tree, it can take root, grow a new plant,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or whatever the season, no matter how barren land. Willow the tenacious vitality not symbolizes our unremitting self-improvement of the national spirit of the Chinese nation? We Chinese people in spite of the disaster, victims of foreign aggression, but still unremitting self-improvement, to strive for progress with determination, we Chinese nation life and growth in nature, standing in the world into national forest.
about willow extremely strong vitality,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I couldn't remember Bai Juyi "for" the poetry to Dongxi Liu,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], "wild love planting, planting willow water palace. By the spring holds the axe, and the tree cut. Is neither a, compete with appropriate. Rely upon the shore buried gets,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the inserting twigs. And not to be difficult to shift, Phoebe. But this tree, this tree is easy to Rongzi. No root can also live, Yin Kuang not late. Not from the county for three years, we can see." This poem in his praise of vitality of willow, speech vivid. Let Phoebe,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], such as pine and cypress trees of these noble to noble, I still like the civilians, the popularization of willow.
when I was small, willow is our good friend, Liu Shulin is a good place for us to play. In early spring,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we can break a branch in the tree, leaving a small cut branches, slowly repair processing into a small whistle blowing, all good music. Early summer, a bird's nest high in the willow tree,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we can climb the tree cutting bird egg, catch a bird. Early autumn, we can use the wicker made of wicker camouflage cap, themselves play fight. Winter, very cold, cold wind whistling, the wind will be the willow branches scraping off, we just pick up home cooking.
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Because the Syria government did not sign the agreement before the deadline of Arab League observers to the agreement, the 27 decided to implement a series of economic sanctions on Syria.
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for the dream to fly
wings
sword play
forward bravely
welcome rain wind
Blocking
is not afraid of difficulties
no oscillation of the desolate night
applauded for their own cry
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